Dear Young Female Millennial Christian Instagrammer,
I used to know you a long time ago and just recently came across your Instagram feed. Your pictures are beautiful and caught my attention immediately, so I scrolled through them in awe of the life you portray. You have built this picture of a [seemingly] perfect life and I have to ask myself how much of it is true? I wonder how long it took you to stage each picture exactly right and how many pictures were deleted before finding the perfect one to post. I became very interested in the reality of your world, so I began to read some of the captions and what I found really made me think.
I can’t help but become curious as to how you live this perfectly instagrammable lifestyle. Per one of your posts, I learned that you don’t work and your husband works part-time [at home!], yet you own a home, afford a baby, and boast about having no debt [except for said house].
This got me thinking about my own life – the one that my husband and I work very hard for. We both work full-time jobs to afford our modest lifestyle, so I just can’t imagine how you are able to afford yours on just a part-time job. I created a list about what all you would have to pay for; I figured if you don’t have student loans and drive old cars, then the following would be the basic bills you most likely would have to pay for:
- Mortgage/Rent
- Utilities
- Energy
- Wifi/Internet
- Phone Bill
- Car Insurance
All of those would easily add up to a part-time paycheck, maybe even two. Your husband must make a ton of money working this part-time job. But then I got to thinking, what about health and dental insurance? You would have to pay all of that out-of-pocket, because most part-time workers don’t get insurance. Then I read about all the stuff you did to fix up your house… it just makes my mind go wild thinking that this kind of life is out there.
Now don’t get me wrong, I don’t mind working and I can’t imagine not helping out my family while I have the time, but I just want to know what part-time job pays for a family of three to live comfortably with little debt? I would also love to see the real side of your family one day. Maybe do a post on struggle or working hard or about long, sleepless nights due to your newborn. I would admire you so much more if your entire life didn’t look staged.
I hope you tell your secret one day and give us a glimpse into your real world!
Sincerely,
Lauren Grey